Im 43yr. old woman. Been with my husband for 10 years, married foe 6 yrs. Of those 10 years and we have a 2 year old boy.
Our relationship has not been an easy road. I have had ADHD my whole life but only diagnosed ADHD since 2007. Even though I’m aware me being ADHD is not an easy thing to deal with, I’m wondering if maybe I also didn’t choose the right partner who can handle who I am. I’ve made great strides in trying to acknowledge his concerns. Even when I have I feel it’s never enough. I see so many articles on a Non ADD having to deal with an ADD partner. But there are very little articles on knowing if you picked the right partner or what to look for when finding a partner when you’re ADD. I just feel no matter how much I try it will still be mediocre effort to my partner.