I am an ADD (inattentive) wife married to a man I have come to highly suspect of having Asperger’s (professional assessment underway). There is relatively little to read about adults with Asperger’s. What I can find about adult relationships explicitly identifies the Aspie’s spouse as “neurotypical”. Help!!! With ADD and many of the challenges which accompany it, I am anything but NT! I am looking for resources, anecdotes, anything that might be informative.
I don’t know how much help i can be to you but i was recently (VERY recently) diagnosed with ADHD inattentive and have a grown SOn with apsergers. I think it is perfectly safe to say neither of us are NTs. And we drive each other a little crazy sometimes 😉